1. Find a job you LOVE.

2. Learn to manage $. Get out of debt, and stay out.

3. Don’t be romanced by the desire to be married.  Don’t settle for less than you deserve.

4. Invest time into building great relationships with your friends and family.

5. Get mental help.

6. Find a spiritual mentor and get counseling on a regular basis.

7. Get involved in your Church.

8. Find a rhythm for Spiritual Disciplines.

9. Volunteer- give your time and energy to make the world a better place.

10. Learn to cook and practice hospitality.

11. Don’t get stuck in “the dip”.  Pursue your dreams relentlessly and keep your eye on the prize.

Now is your time. Walk closely with people you love, and with people who believe God is good and life is a grand adventure. Don’t get stuck in the past, and don’t try to fast-forward yourself into a future you haven’t yet earned. Give today all the love and intensity and courage you can, and keep traveling honestly along life’s path.